single... what?!

so... okay.

i am a single man. for the first time in my adult life.

damn, but what do i do with myself?

dating? what's that?

here's what i'm not getting, and maybe some of my nmgf can tell me...

what is the deal with all those women who flirted with me HARDCORE while i was married (yet poly), but now that i am single have become cold fish?

hmmm?

enquiring minds wanna know.