can i get a witness?

having a witness to our lives is of paramount importance. the little things, the 'yeah, i was there', the ability to call bullshit when appropriate.

i talked a bit with blessica about witnessing when we were discussing the nature of the separation ceremony for julie and i. as it happens, we passed on the public ceremony and held a private unjoining between ourselves. yet still witnessing.

i have been getting plenty of witnesses in my individual life these past few days. jb dropped me an email which... i am quite sure was outside of her intent... managed to pull my head out of the clouds and back to reality with only a few words. witnessing.

kirsteen managed much the same with a phone call in response to my 'prose and cannes' post...

"bullshit," she says, "i've done that and it's complete bullshit."

yes.

i knew that.


i just needed a witness.